YOU ARE WHO YOU ARE ANYWAY

OK I came across this and thought I should share, you all know how I get when it concerns building people up and making you feel wonderful with yourself and be a better version of you, that said:

Management lessons i learnt from a 500 Naira note.

It happened some time ago but . I was in an audience listening to a motivational speaker. The speaker got out his wallet and pulled out a 500 Naira note. Holding it up, he asked, "Who wants this 500 naira note?"

Lots of hands went up. Including mine. A slow chorus began to build as people began to shout "Me!" "Me!" I began to wonder who the lucky one would be who the speaker would choose. And I also secretly wondered (and I am sure others did too ) why he would simply give away 500 naira. Even as the shouts of "I want it" grew louder, I noticed a young woman running down the aisle. She ran up onto the stage, went up to the speaker, and grabbed the five 500 naira note from his hand. "Well done, young lady," said the speaker into the microphone. The speaker simply say "Most of us just sit and wait for good things to happen. That's of no use. You've got to make things happen. Make a move" 'Simply thinking about doing something is of no use and not gud enough'. Our lives are like that. We all see opportunities around us. We all want the good things. But the problem is we don't take action. We all want the 500 naira notes on offer. But we don't make the move. We look at it longingly. Get up, and do something about it. Don't worry about what other people might think.
Take action.

Well that is the first lesson, trust me everybody wants the good life, everyone have that dream you have, everyone have even greater goals than you. What makes you different, what makes you a success, what makes you an achiever? "ACTION

How would you want to be treated...

Oh dear cat how would you like it if the mouse chased you every time they see you just because maybe they were bigger and stronger, how would you like it if you have to live in fear of bumping into the mouse every now and then and even when you do you have to run for your dear life. 

yes before you act at others always put yourself in their shoes and don't for ones think you can never be in that position cause nothing is certain in this life and for those who act the cat in other people's lives at the office, at home, on the streets, at the parks, everywhere this question is for you. 

Really how would you feel?

Spread Love not hate, we all can succeed, the sky is big enough for all the stars there can be.

Those You Admire Treat You Bad

We all know as humans you have to have those you look up to, those that inspire you, those you want to grow to be but what if those people's acts are wrong or even though they are close to you they do not care about you and they keep treating bad, keep failing and keep dragging to the mud.

whether we like it or not when those we admire does wrong directly at us, to themselves, public or just a random kinda wrong, in some way it affects us. so when our inspiration keeps dragging us to the mud what do we do, should we stop loving and looking up to them.

Now listen, life is about the ups and the downs, you should learn to love people with all the baggage that comes with them. so you shouldn't stop admiring them instead you should focus on their strength and the way they always survive wrestling from the mud but them you need to protect and fortify yourself so take a rain check and make some little changes.

Rain Check:

• Why do I love and admire this person
• what are those qualities I see in him that I would die to posses
• does he still have those qualities
• would his new ways affect my psychology or behavior in any way or
• do I understand and admire his strength, for always rising from his falls
• do I admire him for the right reasons
• How can I help

and then

You can either look for a side influencer or stick to the one you already got, depending on how strong you are and how good you are at filtering good from bad (ie what to imitate and what not to) and how much of this person you really admire. You can also talk to a more matured person about what you face and note it is not all adulst that is fit to advice you.

You should be a ride or die admirer. Let them do you wrong, keep loving them, one day, they will realize how much pain they have caused you. remember your influencer, admirer, inspirer is also human and they can make mistakes like every other person

I love my babies, keep reading and keep spreading love and inspiration

Reflect What you want

You want happiness, respect, a go getter, neatness, truthfulness, loyalty, riches and all the good things of life. It is simple, what you give us what you get. If you are not getting everything you wanted maybe you should look into yourself ones more, go back to the drawing board and start over again. You simply have to act the part, walk the walk and talk the talk...a word is enough

Why Give Up

Oh yes you heard me right, why give up... Oh yes I can hear the excuses loud and clear, oh the world is so hard, people are not encouraging, they are not inspiring, I don't have any helper, all I have are enemies who want to see me fail, I don't have any means of income... well the excuses goes on and on. Well news flash while you are there piling up the excuses, drenched in self pity someone is there piling up his proceeds drenched in wealth. Well at least know his:

• If you fall or fail a million times rise and try a million times
• Change tactics if you have to
• Never make the same mistakes over and over again
• Believe in yourself
• what you have is what you need to become what you want
• Some of those situations you think are stumbling blocks are meant to be your inspiration
• Be thankful
• Be prayerful
• Be good
• Be steady
• Be happy
• Be helpful
• Don't hate
• Dont envy
• Be unrealistic (being realistic is being normal, regular trust me if you want to stand out, you don't want to be regular)
• Don't be afraid to dream big but beware of starting from the top
• Stay focused
• Read up great people's story
• Be always ready for a break through "You don't want your break through to pass you by cos you were not read"

This picture says more;

Why give up on yourself when I haven't given up on you, I believe in you, I believe you can be that person you have alway dreant of, remember great people are not born great they were made great let Oprah Winfrey, Walt Disney, Jayz and Beyonce, Micheal Jordan, Steve Jobs, 2Face Idibia and many more be an inspiration to you " The whole world can give up on you and its cool and fine as long as you don't let it bother you you can still be great but the moment you give up on yourself and hang your raci ng boots you are done... I am gunning for the top and looking forward to seeing you there...

Take off with me...

Most people do not want to see your take off they just want to see you flying and they expect that while they are still patching where you left them you lower down, pick them and continue the flight....of course there are always exemptions

Congrats! Kim Kardashian and kanye West

We cheer with Kim Karshian and Kanye West as they welcome their first child "a baby girl" I can imagine the joy in the kardashian's home right now. We wish both a smooth parental life and we pray you'll be good role models to your bundle of Joy. Mmmmh this is most women's dream, enjoy every inch, eeeevery bit and every step of your momahood Kim